What is a person who is meticulous?

I've been struggling lately because I invited my son and his family to move in and I'm a perfectionist who likes things a certain way and they... not so much.

That would be me I get on family's nerves as they are very much the opposite

I'm a perfectionist or meticulous. I expect a lot out of myself. as close to perfection as I can get! But I don't expect others to be perfect. Otherwise, I'd drive everyone Crazy 🤪.

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My beautiful daughter.